Tantric Massage London
More Than Massage
I offer tantric massage with full intimacy because tantric massage is the perfect conduit to soulful sex. We can conjure a space in time to join subtly (energetically) as well as corporeally, to be lost in one another and yet so 'together' the feeling is that of being found.
This is a tantric massage for those of rarefied taste and sensibility who desire passive 'me-time' to unwind and be prone, pampered and adored without having to do a thing in return.
In most cases, sessions involving an element of tantric massage work well when I lead proceedings (at least initially). Let me be close to you, to feel you, to take time to harmonise with you. All you need to do is 'be'. Lay still whilst I stroke you. Let me touch you until I find the thread that connects all things. With that connection we may drift into a union that is so very much more than the usual.
What is Tantric Massage?
Tantric massage, as I practice, is a westernised reduction of the tantric belief system in that it aims to capture the essence of Tantra in a single, pleasurable experience.
During your tantric massage, I work with energy to induce a physically and emotionally heightened state of awareness that can be so breathtakingly beautiful as to be beyond words. By moving energy we can feel ourselves, and arousal, in an entirely new way; each and every energetic encounter is unique, it never feels the same twice! Tantric massage is a meditation that's simple to slip into and joyous to explore (I eschew all ritual and breathing techniques - I don't find these things to be joyous).
First-time clients have described the experience as "ethereal" and "a silent conversation".
More About Tantric Massage
Going back ten or twelve years, when commercial tantric massage REALLY became 'a thing' in London, escorts fell over themselves to offer it. Well, sort of, in so much as they stuck a latex gloved finger up your fundamental and called it tantric massage.
Fast forward a couple of years, and having had to the time to read a little bit about Tantra, Kundalini awakening and full body orgasms became the flavour of the moment.
To this day the words tantric massage and Kundalini awakening are bandied about (mostly) as an advertising gimmick.
Against this backdrop of sensationalism and ignorance here is a brief explanation of my offering in the context of Tantra.
Tantra is an ancient and complex spiritual belief system underpinned by the belief that there is duality within the universe caused by a schism during the process of creation. This duality is personified as Shiva and Shakti, male and female or consciousness and energy, respectively. Shiva and Shakti strive to reunite in order to manifest their full nature withing the universe.
The unification of Shiva and Shakti within one's self is fundamental to Tantra. Their union heralds a resolution of duality and a deep inner peace ensues as the mind, body and spirit, in their newly achieved state of harmony, form a connection with the Divine - the source of creation. Through this connection the practitioner may achieve Enlightenment.
Shiva and Shakti have physical counterparts within the body. Shakti, the feminine aspect representing energy, is called Kundalini-Shakti or more commonly, Kundalini. Kundalini rests at the base of the spinal cord and may be awoken (Kundalini awakening). When this happens, Kundalini may ascend through the subtle counterpart of the physical spine (Sushumna) where it unites above the crown with Shiva. This elevates the tantric practitioner beyond the mundane to a connection with The Divine.
To this end, there are many rituals and mediations which seek to stimulate and nourish the subtle body so its energy (prana) may flow freely about the body's subtle energy channels (nadis) and meet, unobstructed, at the body's energy centers (chakras).
The body has seven main chakras. One of which, the root chakra (Muladhara) is located base of the spine and is often manipulated by way of the perineum; now you know where the rubber gloved prostate massage that passed for tantric massage for so many years harks from.
There you have it, in an oversimplified nutshell, the purpose of Tantra is to elicit Kundalini awakening and unite worshipers with the Divine. It is a lifelong practise, some consider it a religion, some, an expression of spirituality and others a lifestyle.
Clearly then tantric massage is not necessarily one and the same as Tantra. I think of tantric massage as a Westernised reduction of the tantric belief system as it aims to capture the essence of Tantra in a single, pleasurable experience. Whilst it is a wondrous experience, let's be clear, you are not going to achieve Kundalini awakening by way of tantric massage. It is simply ludicrous to suggest you would or could. I would rather state, simply and honestly, that I focus on moving energy around the body to unblock and clear the body's energy centers so you feel yourself, and arousal, in an entirely new way.